What Parents and Teachers should Know about Suicide in Adolescents and Young Adults

INTRODUCTIONSuicide is one of the commonestThe suicidal person is ambivalent - part of him wants
causes of death among young people. The latestto live and part of him wants not so much death as he
mean worldwide annual rates of suicide per 100,000wants the pain to end. It is the part that wants to live
are 0.5 for females and 0.9 for males amongthat tells another "I feel suicidal." If a suicidal person
5-14-year-olds, and 12.0 for females and 14.2 for malesturns to you it is likely that he believes that you are
among 15-24-year-olds. Suicide is the sixth leadingmore caring, more informed about coping with
cause of death among children aged 5-14 years, andmisfortune, and more willing to protect his confidentiality.
the third leading cause of death among all those 15-24No matter how negative the manner and content of
years old. In most countries, males outnumber femaleshis talk, he is doing a positive thing and has a positive
in youth suicide statistics. There are far more suicidalview of you.3. Be willing to give and get help sooner
attempts and gestures than actual completed suicides.rather than later.
One epidemiological study estimated that there wereSuicide prevention is not a last minute activity.
23 suicidal gestures and attempts for every completedUnfortunately, suicidal people are afraid that trying to
suicide. Though female teens are much more likely toget help may bring them more pain: being told they are
attempt suicide than males, male teens are more likelystupid, foolish, sinful, or manipulative; rejection;
to actually kill themselves. The suicide rate amongpunishment; suspension from school; written records of
young teens and young adults has increased by moretheir condition; or involuntary commitment. You need to
than 300% in the last three decades.RISK FACTORSdo everything you can to reduce pain, rather than
FOR SUICIDEContrary to popular belief, suicide is notincrease or prolong it. Constructively involving yourself
an impulsive act but the result of a three-step process:on the side of life as early as possible will reduce the
a previous history of problems is compounded byrisk of suicide.4. Listen.
problems associated with adolescence; finally, aGive the person every opportunity to unburden his
precipitating event, often a death or the end of atroubles and ventilate his feelings. You don't need to
meaningful relationship, triggers the suicide. The major,say much and there are no magic words. If you are
empirically proven risk actors for suicide amongconcerned, your voice and manner will show it. Give
adolescents are detailed below.PERSONALhim relief from being alone with his pain; let him know
CHARACTERISTICSPsychopathology:you are glad he turned to you. At times everyone
More than 90% of youth suicides and around 60% offeels sad, hurt, or hopeless. You know what that's like;
younger adolescent suicide victims have had at leastshare your feelings. Let the child know he or she is not
one major psychiatric disorder. The most prevalentalone. Avoid arguments and advice giving. If the child's
disorder in adolescent suicide victims is depressivewords or actions scare you, tell him or her. If you're
disorders. Depression that seems to quickly disappearworried or don't know what to do, say so.5. ASK: "Are
for no apparent reason is a cause for concern, andyou having thoughts of suicide?"
the early stages of recovery from depression can beMyth: "Talking about it may give someone the idea."
a high risk period. Substance abuse, conduct disorder,People already have the idea; suicide is constantly in
posttraumatic stress disorder and panic attacks arethe media. If you ask a despairing person this question
the other disorders found to be common in thisyou are doing a good thing for them: you are showing
population.Previous suicide attempts:him that you care about him, that you take him
A history of prior suicide attempts is one of theseriously, and that you are willing to let him share his
strongest predictors of completed suicide, especially inpain with you. You are giving him further opportunity to
boys. One quarter to one third of teen suicide victimsdischarge pent up and painful feelings. If the person is
have made a previous suicide attempt.Cognitive andhaving thoughts of suicide, find out how far along his
personality factors:ideation has progressed.6. If the person is acutely
Hopelessness, poor interpersonal problem solvingsuicidal, do not leave him alone.
ability and aggressive impulsive behaviour have beenIf the means are present, try to get rid of them.
linked with suicidality.Biological factors:Detoxify the school or home.7. Urge professional help.
Some teens are at greater risk for suicide becausePersistence and patience may be needed to seek,
of their biochemical makeup. Abnormalities in theengage and continue with as many options as possible.
function of serotonin, a neurotransmitter, have beenIn any referral situation, let the person know you care
associated with suicidal behaviour.FAMILYand want to maintain contact.8. No secrets.
CHARACTERISTICSFamily history of suicidalIt is the part of the person that is afraid of more pain
behaviour:that says "Don't tell anyone." It is the part that wants to
Teens who kill themselves have often had a closestay alive that tells you about it. Respond to that part
family member who attempted or committedof the person and persistently seek out a mature and
suicide.Parental psychopathology:compassionate person with whom you can review the
High rates of parental psychopathology, particularlysituation. Distributing the anxieties and responsibilities of
depression and substance abuse, have been found tosuicide prevention makes it easier and much more
be associated with completed suicide and suicidaleffective.Interventions with a suicidal student:Schools
ideation and attempts in adolescents. Moreover, familyshould have a written protocol for dealing with a
cohesion has been reported to be a protective factorstudent who shows signs of suicidal or other
for suicidal behaviour among adolescents.ADVERSEdangerous behavior. The following steps may be
LIFE CIRCUMSTANCESStressful life events:effective in dealing with a student who expresses
Life stressors such as interpersonal losses and legalactive suicidal intent.1. Calm the immediate crisis
or disciplinary problems are associated with completedsituation. Do not leave the suicidal student alone even
suicide and suicide attempts in adolescents. Thefor a minute. Ask whether he or she is in possession
anniversary of a loss can also evoke a powerfulof any potentially dangerous objects or medications. If
desire to commit suicide.Physical abuse:the student has dangerous items on his person, be
Childhood physical abuse has been found to becalm and try to verbally persuade the student to give
associated with increased risk of suicide attempts inthem to you. Do not engage in a physical struggle to
late adolescence and earlyget the items. Call administration or the designated
adulthood.SOCIOECONOMIC AND CONTEXTUALcrisis team. Escort the student away from other
FACTORSSchool and work problems:students to a safe place where the crisis team
Difficulties in school, neither working nor being in school,members can talk to him. Be sure that there is access
dropping out of high school and not attending collegeto a telephone.2. The crisis individuals then interview the
pose significant risks for completed suicide.Contagionstudent and determine the potential risk for suicide.
Imitation:a. If the student is holding on to dangerous items, it is
Teens are more likely to kill themselves if they havethe highest risk situation. Staff should call an
recently read, seen, or heard about other suicideambulance, the police and the student's parents. Staff
attempts. Evidence continues to amass from studiesshould try to calm the student and ask for the
of suicide clusters and the impact of the media,dangerous items.
supporting the existence of suicide contagion. Theb. If the student has no dangerous objects, but
impact of suicide stories on subsequent competedappears to be an immediate suicide risk, it would be
suicides appears to be greatest forconsidered a high-risk situation. If the student is upset
teenagers.PREVENTION STRATEGIESYouth suicidebecause of physical or sexual abuse, staff should
prevention strategies have primarily been implementednotify the appropriate school personnel and contact
within three domains - school, community, and healththe police. If there is no evidence of abuse or neglect,
are systems. This article reviews the school-basedstaff should contact parents and ask them to come in
programs.SCHOOL-BASED SUICIDE PREVENTIONto pick up their child. Staff should inform them fully
PROGRAMSSchool based suicide preventionabout the situation and strongly encourage them to
programs include both curricula components to teachtake their child to a mental health professional for an
students about these warning signs and what to do, asevaluation. The team should give the parents a list of
well as non-curricula components such as peer groups,telephone numbers of crisis clinics. If the school is
hot lines, intervention services and parent training.unable to contact parents, and if the police cannot
Prevention includes education efforts to alert studentsintervene, designated staff should take the student to
and the community to the problem of teen suicidala nearby emergency room.
behavior. Intervention with a suicidal student is aimed atc. If the student has had suicidal thoughts but does not
protecting and helping the student who is currently inseem likely to hurt himself in the near future, the risk is
distress. Postvention occurs after there has been amore moderate. If abuse or neglect is involved, staff
suicide in the school community. It attempts to helpshould proceed as in the high-risk process. If there is
those affected by the recent suicide. In all cases it is ano evidence of abuse, the parents should still be called
good idea to have a clear plan in place in advance. Itto come in. They should be encouraged to take their
should involve staff members and administration. Therechild for an immediate evaluation.
should be clear protocols and clear lines ofd. Follow-Up: It is important to document all actions
communication. Careful planning can maketaken. The crisis team may meet after the incident to
interventions more organized, and effective.The goalsgo over the situation. Friends of the student should be
of school based suicide prevention programs are to:*given some limited information about what has
Increase awarenesstranspired. Designated staff should follow up with the
* Promote identification of students at high risk ofstudent and parents to determine whether the student
suicide and suicide attemptsis receiving appropriate mental health services.
* Provide knowledge about the behavioralFollow-up is crucial, because most suicides occur within
characteristics ("warning signs") of teens at risk forthree months of the beginning of improvement in
suicide.depressive symptoms, when the youth has the energy
* Provide information to students, teachers andto carry out plans conceived earlier. Regularly
parents on the availability of mental health resourcesscheduled supportive counseling should be provided to
* Enhance the coping abilities of teenagersEducation:teach the youth coping mechanisms for managing
Education may be done in a health class, by thestress accompanying a life crisis, as well as
school counselor or outside speakers. Education shouldday-to-day stress.Role of the teachers:Teachers play
address the factors that make individuals morean especially important part in prevention, because
vulnerable to suicidal thoughts. Education regarding thethey spend so much time with their students. Along
ill effects of drug and alcohol abuse would be useful.with holding parent-teacher meetings to discuss
PTA meetings can be used to educate parents aboutteenage suicide prevention, teachers can form referral
depression and suicidal behavior. Parents should benetworks with mental health professionals. They can
educated about the risk of unsecured firearms in theincrease student awareness by introducing the topic in
home. Outside mental health professionals can discusshealth classes.Some schools have automatic expulsion
their programs so that students can see that thesepolicies for students who engage in illegal or violent
individuals are approachable. Education on the followingbehavior. It is important to remember that teens who
topics will be useful:Warning signs of suicide:*are violent or abuse drugs may be at increased risk
Preoccupation with death and dyingfor suicide. If someone is expelled, the school should
* Signs of depressionattempt to help the parents arrange immediate and
* Taking excessive riskspossibly intensive psychiatric and behavioral
* Increased drug useinterventions.Role of the peers:Peers are crucial to
* The verbalizing of suicide threatssuicide prevention. According to one survey, 93% of
* The giving away of prized personal possessionsthe students reported that they would turn to a friend
* The collection and discussion of information onbefore a teacher, parent or spiritual guide in a time of
suicide methodscrisis. Peers can form student support groups and,
* The expression of hopelessness, helplessness, andonce educated themselves, can train others to be
anger at oneself or the worldpeer counselors.Adolescents often will try to support a
* Themes of death or depression evident insuicidal friend by themselves. They may feel bound to
conversation, written expressions, reading selections, orsecrecy, or feel that adults are not to be trusted, and
artworkthis may delay needed treatment. Ideally, a teenage
* The scratching or marking of the body, or otherfriend should listen to the suicidal youth in an empathic
self-destructive actsway, but then insist on getting the youth immediate
* Acute personality changes, unusual withdrawal,adult and professional help.Role of the parents:Parents
aggressiveness, or moodinessneed to be as open and as attentive as possible to
* Sudden dramatic decline or improvement intheir adolescent children's difficulties. The most
academic performance, chronic truancy or tardiness,effective suicide prevention technique parents can
or running awayexercise is to maintain open lines of communication
* Physical symptoms such as eating disturbances,with their children. Sometimes teens hide their
sleeplessness or excessive sleeping, chronicproblems, not wanting to burden the people they love. It
headaches or stomachaches, menstrual irregularities,is extremely important to assure teens that they can
apathetic appearanceSudden changes in behavior thatshare their troubles, and gain support in the process.
are significant, last for a long time, and are apparent inParents are encouraged to talk about suicide with their
all or most areas of his or her life (pervasive) are morechildren, and to educate themselves by attending
specific than presence of isolated signs. However, itparent-teacher or parent-counselor education sessions
should be noted that many completed suicides hadand from nearby libraries or the internet. Once trained,
only a few of the conditions listed above, and that allparents can help to staff a crisis hotline in their
indications of suicidality need to be taken seriously in acommunity. Parents also need to be involved in the
one person to another person situation.Signs ofcounseling process if a teen has suicidal tendencies.
depression in teens:* Sad, anxious or "empty" moodThese activities may both alleviate parents' fears of
* Declining school performancethe unknown and assure teenagers that their parents
* Loss of pleasure/interest in social and sportscare.Postvention/crisis intervention:The rationale for
activitiesschool-based postvention/crisis intervention is that a
* Sleeping too much or too littletimely response to a suicide is likely to reduce
* Changes in weight or appetiteFactors associatedsubsequent morbidity and mortality in fellow students,
with repeated self harm:* Previous self harmincluding suicidality, the onset and exacerbation of
* Personality disturbancepsychiatric disorders, and other symptoms related to
* Depressionpathological bereavement.The school should have
* Alcohol or drug misuseplans in place to deal with a suicide or other major
* Chronic psychosocial problems and behaviourcrisis in the school community. The administration or the
disturbancedesignated individual should try to get as much
* Disturbed family relationshipsinformation as soon as possible. He or she should
* Alcohol dependence in the familymeet with teachers and staff to inform them of the
* Social isolationsuicide. The teachers or other staff should inform each
* Poor school recordHow to support a student withclass of students. It is important that all of the students
suicidal thoughts and a low self-esteem?* Listenhear the same thing. After they have been informed,
actively. Teach problem-solving skillsthey should have the opportunity to talk about it. Those
* Encourage positive thinking. Instead of saying that hewho wish should be excused to talk to crisis
cannot do something, he should say that he will try.counselors. The school should have extra counselors
* Help the student write a list of his or her goodavailable for students and staff who need to talk.
qualities.Students who appear to be the most severely
* Give the student opportunities for success. Give asaffected may need parental notification and outside
much praise as possiblemental health referrals. Rumor control is important.
* Help the student set up a step-by-step plan toThere should be a designated person to deal with the
achieve his goals.media. Refusing to talk to the media takes away the
* Talk to the family so that they can understand howchance to influence what information will be in the
the student is feeling.news. One should remind the media reporters that
* He or she might benefit from assertiveness trainingsensational reporting has the potential for increasing a
* Helping others may raise one's self-esteem.contagion effect. They should ask the media to be
* Get the student involved in positive activities incareful in how they report the incident. Media should
school or in the community.avoid repeated or sensationalistic coverage. They
* If appropriate, involve the student's religiousshould not provide enough details of the suicide
community.method to create a "how to" description. They should
* Make up a contract with rewards for positive andtry not to glorify the individual or present the suicidal
new behaviors.What can be done to help someonebehavior as a legitimate strategy for coping with
who may be suicidal?:1. Take it seriously.difficult situations.It is imperative for crisis interventions
Myth: "The people who talk about it don't do it."to be well planned and evaluated; otherwise, not only
Studies have found that more than 75% of allmay they not help survivors, but they may potentially
completed suicides did things in the few weeks orexacerbate problems through the induction of
months prior to their deaths to indicate to others thatimitation.CONCLUSIONSuicide attempts and completed
they were in deep despair. Anyone expressing suicidalsuicides among adolescents are problems of
feelings needs immediate attention.increasing significance. School staff, parents, and health
Myth: "Anyone who tries to kill himself has got to beprofessionals should be sensitized about the risk
crazy." Perhaps 10% of all suicidal people arefactors and warning signs of suicide, and about the
psychotic or have delusional beliefs about reality. Mostways to deal with suicidal adolescents.FURTHER
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"craziness" does not mean the absence of suicide risk.the American Academy of Child and Adolescent
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bad the problem is, but how badly it's hurting the*
person who has it.2. Remember: suicidal behavior is a* Shahul Ameen, M.D., is a psychiatrist based in
cry for help.Ranchi, India.
Myth: "If someone is going to kill himself, nothing canHe edits (a portal for mental health professionals) and
stop him." The fact that a person is still alive is(a portal on mental health for the consumers).
sufficient proof that part of him wants to remain alive.