Kids & Cell Phones

Is it safety? Is it security? Or is it just cool?your plan doesn't include a national calling plan, you will
be charged anywhere from $0.45 to $0.80 per minute
Have you ever noticed how many kiosks havefor those calls. So be careful.
popped up in you favorite mall? And just about all of
them are selling cell phones. Teens can actually design3. Prepaid phones.
their own graphics and have the graphic airbrushed on
the face of the phone itself. They face plates andSimple, you buy a phone and then buy minutes as you
antennas that light up on each ring. Just drop by aneed them. Most will include roaming and nationwide
kiosk next time your at the mall, you'll see what I mean.coverage, ("Roaming" no additional fees for your
current location, where ever that might be and
"Nationwide Coverage" just means no long distance
In a resent Los Angeles Times article, they stated thatcharges). These phones don't require any contracts, so
teens with cell phones were at around 16% onthis means you can cancel at any time without paying
average. I think by 2005, it will more of an average ofany cancellation fees, which can be anywhere from
50% or even more.$140 to $190, depending on the contract length you
signed up for originally.
Cell phones seem to be a great security feature for
the parents. They can now be 'connected' to theirThese phones don't require a credit card or even a
children 24 hours a day, 7 days week, and 365 days achecking account. If you have the cash in hand, you
year. And of course, it allows the child to dial 911 if anwalk away with a cell phone and a certain amount of
emergency arises. And now with the GPS Locationusage time. It's just that simple.
Sensitivity feature, your child will be located during that
emergency with ten feet of the phones location.3. Disposable phones. Yes, disposable! They're going to
have many up sides. Just to name a few: They are
Of course, with all this technology and added security,setup the same as the prepaid phones, no possibility to
there are a few problems. The school systems areget a LARGE phone bill at the end of the billing cycle.
being cluttered with phone calls in the middle of class.No roaming or long distance charges, some won't
And there is always the problem with calls in theeven work if you leave the activation area, (be careful
hallways and bathrooms going on continuously. Moston this one, mainly if you are getting one for
schools are adopting the "use it during school - youemergency use). No contracts to deal with and no
loose it" policy. This has become a real burden onactivation fees, or credit checks.
school administrators. Their parents as far as carrying
the phones themselves back the children. So this isn'tThe bad side, no call waiting, voice mail, or SMS (Small
something they can take away and keep until the endMessage Service) capabilities. And you'll pay a higher
of the year. They must give the phones back at theper minute charge, just like the prepaid phones. In a
end of the day. This is usually enough of a deterrent toway, these are prepaid phones, just cheaper. And you
keep them off during school hours.probably won't be able to sale an old phone on eBay,
even if it's in good condition.
If children and most adults new to cell phones could
just remember to put their phones on silent or vibrateThey are soon to be introduced at a price of around
alert, these problems would never occur. These are$40, which gives you the cell phone and about 10
the same issues with many other public placesminutes of talk time. This also includes the charger and
including movie theaters. Of course, it's easier for somea headset.
wearing a belt to put their phone on vibrate, then you
still know if the phone rings or not, regardless if youThese little phones can be recharged with time by
answer it or not. But for most women, they usuallyeither buying a scratch-off card that resembles a
don't wear belts, this creates a problem. If the phone islottery ticket. After scratching the card, there is a PIN
in any mode other than "ring", they never know,number, you enter it into the phone, and your minutes
(without checking from time to time), if they haveare updated. Parents will also have the ability to call in
missed a call or not. So usually, the phones are left inand update the minutes if need be. The minutes expire
the "ring" mode and probably on load, sittingjust like the prepaid phones, but they are saying it's set
somewhere in the bottom of a purse. Even with theto every six months. If you update your minute
purses with the little pocket on the outside for thebalance, the phones won't expire. The current price per
phone, the phones are still left in the "ring" mode.minute, $0.25 to $0.35, depending on the phone your
purchased. And of course, the downside is with a
How do you keep your child from talking you out ofregular cell plan, you would probably pay around $0.15
house-n-home? If you think about how your child mayper minute or less.
get on the home phone and talk for hours if you let
them. What if they did that on their cell phone? ThereThese little phones are soon to be sold in department
is one answer. But this might limit your ability to get instores to convenient stores. No check or credit cards
contact with them when you want to.are need. If you have the cash, you can have a cell
phone.
Some ideas:
And when your done with the phone, you either throw
1. Using a prepaid phone instead of using a shared plan,it away, or recycle it. (You might want to recycle the
(it costs anywhere from $0.30 to $1.00 per minute talkbattery at least! Depending on the type of battery,
time). You give them a certain amount of minutes permost States have laws that describe how to properly
month. After that, it's up to them to use their allowancedispose of rechargeable batteries.
money to up the phone time. These phones are usually
cheap and not as fancy as some of the newerThings to keep in mind when buying a cell phone for a
models.child: With most all of the newer phones, you can send
and receive SMS (Small Message Service), which
Using this technique is also useful on determining howmeans the phone is also capable of sending and
responsible they may be with a checking account inreceiving email from the web. Some of the phones
the future. If they are out of the allotted minutes withinallow Internet access just like your home computer.
the first week of the month, this might reflect inSome phones will display graphics; this means "all"
bounced checks in the future. And can also help totypes of graphics. Some phones will take
ingrain the use of saving up for that rainy day: If thelow-resolution pictures. These pictures can be sent to
child doesn't use all their minutes this month, they willanyone that can receive a picture via SMS or the
have that many more minutes to use the followingInternet. What if a picture was taken in the Physical
month and so on. Just like saving money in the bank. IfEducation dressing room at school and sent across
you spend all your allowance in one week, you won'tcampus and off through the Internet. Do you get
have anything for the next three, but if you save now,picture?
you have twice as much to spend next month. And so
on, three times as much as the following month.There have been many complaints in school about
(Hmmm, so what could you buy if you were holdingthis type of Hi-Tech bullying. You have to make your
three months worth of allowance)? Think about it.children understand the do's and don'ts of the new
technology. Make sure your child isn't being bullied and
Parents can recharge the phone each month as partmake sure your child is being the bully. All this new
of their allowance. This gives children a feel for havingtechnology needs to be monitored when children are
a checking account! Because, when it's gone, it's gone!at play. Just like your home computer, you must be
This will hopefully build a level of responsibility. Or thiscareful where your children are going. One simple way
could possibly make them want to go out and get aof tracking who your children are calling, even on the
job to buy more minutes. Either way, it has theprepaid phone models is to check the call history.
potential to help them coup with the world ahead ofSome phones allow you to set the call history at to
them.save up to the last 999 phone calls made. Other
phones may only go up to 100 or even less. You can
2. Shared plans from your current provider. This is thecheck that history and see who they called, when, and
cheapest way to go. But, if your child is not yetfor how long. You can see if it might have been late at
responsible enough not to over use, then your in for annight when they should be sleeping or if the call was
interesting surprise at the end of the billing cycle. Withmade in the middle of a class at school, which could
most of these plans, you can get anywhere fromdenote skipping classes, hey, you never know. But
$0.07 to $0.12 per minute. And with most carriers, thethere are many ways to find out what your child is up
plans include either 1000 mobile-to-mobile minutes,to just by looking at the phone history. It tells you much
which means if your child calls someone else on themore than just a bunch of numbers!
same cell provider as you, the call comes off the 1000
minutes. Some even have plans that mobile to mobileJust remember, most of these camera phones can
are unlimited. And many of the plans have free nightsend and receive pictures, inappropriate material can
and weekend plans. Which would mean, you mightalso be sent and received. Just be aware of this.
never get the child off the phone over the weekend!
Remember one thing: It's hard to keep up with whatMost phones will access the web just like your home
minutes where used when and how, so you wouldcomputer. This means graphics of all kinds can be
have to check with your cell provider from time to timeviewed.
to see where you are on the minutes you have
available. Most services have a number you can dial,If the phone will send & receive text messages, SMS,
and a computer voice will read off the time you haveit will have the ability to send & receive Email.
used for the current billing cycle. And most of these
plans will require a one to two year contract whichMany plans have free night and weekend minutes, but
might cost as much as $100 to $200 to break. So ifmake sure your child understands the company
you decide that the family plan isn't working out likedefinition of "night and weekend," Most start around 9
you thought, it might cost you up to $200 to end thatp.m. and end around 6 a.m. the next morning. And your
contract. Most of these plans will also have anweekend minutes begin around 9 p.m. on Friday and
activation fee, they usually charge anywhere from $30end around 6 a.m. on Monday. Incoming and outgoing
to $50 per phone being activated. And of course, don'ttext messages, incoming and outgoing calls, Web
forget one really important thing: You have to buy theaccess, and special features such as downloading
phone! This always helps to you the service. And thisgames, screen savers, and ring tones all costs money
is probably going to be something the child will want toor costs part your cell minutes. Just make sure your
pick out.child understands that before it becomes a co$tly
argument. Most of the horror stories I've heard about
One note about cell phone time-sharing. If you have awhere a child ran up $1000 or more in cell phone bills
family of three using a shared plan of 300 minutes perwithin one month is usually a case where the child
month, and your child decides to use 300 minutes ofthought they were on free minutes of some kind, but
talk time within the first 3 days, for the rest of thatwere not.
month you will be paying anywhere from $0.35 to
$0.60 per minute for every call! This might not even beCell companies have confusing plans for a reason, to
a responsibility factor: What if your child calls a friendget you to spend more and make it difficult to keep up
that he thought was on the same cell carrier. Which, ifwith peak minutes used. Most services have free
you have the 1000 minute mobile to mobile or unlimited,mobile-to-mobile calls. If you are on Verizon and you
this call wouldn't count against your plan. But if his friendcall someone else on Verizon, it costs you nothing off
was wrong about the carrier, you get bill.your peak cell minutes. This is free for peak and
non-peak calls. (Check with your own carry to see if
(I've actually done this)! And I never checked my timethey offer this feature). Soon we'll be able to keep our
because I use a program that does that for me. I justcell numbers as we bounce from carrier to carrier.
enter in the numbers I think are unlimited, and theLet's say your on Verizon, your friend used to be on
program never counts those numbers. Well, if you getVerizon, she switched to Sprint and she was able to
that wrong, it can bite pretty hard at the end of thetake her old cell phone number with her. You still call
billing cycle when you see that pretty bill.the same number and think she is on Verizon, so it's a
free call, right? No, since she moved to Sprint. It
A note about roaming fees. If you aren't in your "area"becomes a costly mistake at the end of the month
as defined by your cell service provider, you will bewhen you get your bill.
charge a roaming fee for incoming and outgoing calls. If